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    <div class="moz-cite-prefix">What about providing a "list of
      resources" at the end of the CofC? I recall some people also had
      some very useful links to debating, conflict resolution,
      moderation and mediation techniques.  I think it would be helpful
      to reference some of these positive resources too.<br>
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      -Brendan<br>
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      On 05/21/2014 03:24 PM, Susan Spencer wrote:<br>
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      <div dir="ltr">+1 Brendan's 'confident'  or 'confidence'
        suggestion.
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        <div>It is a bit of a break in the flow of the document to have
          the link.</div>
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        <div>The reasoning was that since it needed to be included</div>
        <div>(else make our own list of examples) then just include it
          very simply </div>
        <div>and not dwell on it. </div>
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        <div class="gmail_quote">On Wed, May 21, 2014 at 8:20 AM,
          Brendan Howell <span dir="ltr"><<a moz-do-not-send="true"
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          wrote:<br>
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            .8ex;border-left:1px #ccc solid;padding-left:1ex">This is
            excellent!  Two small things that stood out to me:<br>
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              On 05/19/2014 12:05 PM, Femke Snelting wrote:<br>
              > In case you think these things do not happen:<br>
              > <a moz-do-not-send="true"
                href="http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Timeline_of_incidents"
                target="_blank">http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Timeline_of_incidents</a><br>
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            While this is a great resource, I don't think it belongs in
            the CoC.  It<br>
            sounds glib and defensive.  A document like this Code does
            not need to<br>
            justify its own existence.  Also, it shifts the narrative
            point of view<br>
            from being the group to "you".<br>
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              > - For Participants: Feel safe. Participants know that
              if we experience<br>
              > something that we are not comfortable with, our
              concerns will be taken<br>
              > seriously - and that help is available.<br>
              > - For Organisers: Feel sure. Organisers know the
              standard to which the<br>
              > LGM community holds itself, and what to do when an
              issue arises.<br>
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            I would suggest changing "feel sure" to "confidence".
             "Sure" sounds<br>
            kind of vague to my American ears.<br>
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            Thanks for your hard work putting this together!<br>
            <span class="HOEnZb"><font color="#888888"><br>
                -Brendan<br>
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                --<br>
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