[pulseaudio-discuss] how to play on server via ssh

[sean darcy]

I want to play music that's stored on the server through the server. 
This works if I'm at the server, but I want to control the server remotely.

I've tried logging in using ssh but:

$ paplay LRMonoPhase4.wav
Connection failure: Connection refused
pa_context_connect() failed: Connection refused

The daemon seems to be running:

ps aux | grep pulsea | grep video
video    19736  0.0  0.0 504508 11320 ?        S<l  13:16   0:00 
/usr/bin/pulseaudio --start

How can I control the server remotely?

Thanks,

sean